Entry #18. Cottage is Perspective.


Cottage keeps moving forward in time. Tomorrow always follows today, and yesterday happened yesterday, and there's no sense in pushing against that because it's a fight you can't win. At the same time, cottage remembers where it was back then as a way of setting the right trajectory for what's not yet. And so we flip through scrapbooks, and look at photos of each other and this house from years ago and we see how far we've come; so much distance traveled through time, so much progress made. Yet we are still we; those people from years ago are these people sitting next to each other right now.

That house in those photos with its saggy floors and sad paint is this house right here, beauty starting to show. These people that feel weak and tired now are those people who've made it through much worse. But this seems like a strange contradiction: the house gets more and more beautiful while the occupants who put so much into it get more and more haggard? How is this right? And then we realize those people in those photos, while they certainly loved each other then, have no idea what it is like to have the love we have for each other now. And that is the beauty that shows more and more; these people sitting next to each other right now increasingly see what it means to love and be loved, no matter what.

Cottage is perspective. This is Cottage.

Entry #17. Cottage is Warm.


This cottage loves to have candles placed about, casting their playful light, offering a little warmth here and there. There is something about candle light that is fitting for cottage; it is subtly welcoming, warmly inviting you to enjoy this atmosphere. Candles do this to all of our senses, treating the whole person to a cozy experience.

And this is a fitting metaphor for cottage. All of us living here in this cottage are contributing what we have to offer, casting our own light, bringing our own warmth into this shared space. And as we all give our particular gifts and bring our particular talents to bear, we are giving something of ourselves to each other and to those whom we are fortunate to have visit our cottage for a bit. That is why we love lighting candles.

And we all look really good in candle light, too, which is a bonus.

Cottage is warm. This is cottage.

Entry #16. Cottage is Home.

Cottage is Home. This is cottage

Entry #15. Cottage is Renewed.

Renewal is an experiment. What will life be like if we choose to live in this house, on this street, in this neighborhood, in this city, and commit to doing what we can to bring it (back) to life? And that impulse drives even the simplest of projects.


This was a piece of an old, broken-down piano. What sort of life can it have if we choose to commit some time, creativity, and effort to it? It lives on as a sideboard in the cottage dining room, still bearing proudly its original piano label, right there, dead center of the top. It's as though it is saying "I may no longer be a piano, but there is life in me yet".


Cottage is renewed. This is cottage.

Entry #14. Cottage is Quirky.

Cottage quirkiness is an expression of that inner sense that enables patience when a project (or a group of projects) goes unfinished for months, with no reasonable explanation. That inner sense that says, "I know this seems like the most important thing you have ever done, and that you feel that when you finish it all things will be set aright. But take a step back. It's just a _________(fill in the blank with whatever project you are working on). Stop taking yourself so seriously."


Cottage is quirky. This is cottage.

Entry #13. Cottage is Renewed.

The turquoise shelf was a piano. The “R”-wall was some folding doors between someone’s kitchen and dining room. The lamp, well, that’s always been a lamp, but it was once cheapy brass with a terrible accordion shade.

What all these things have in common is that they were trash. And now they are here, in the cottage living room.

Cottage is renewed. This is Cottage

Entry #12. Cottage is Quirky

There are certain things that are sacred, untouchable, no doubt about that. But sometimes it’s tempting to elevate things to sacred status that just don’t belong there. Nostalgia is the temptation to elevate things to sacred status because they’re old. A preoccupation with novelty elevates things to sacred status because they’re young. Elevating things to sacred status because you like them is called pretentiousness.

All of that is preface to this: I am pretty sure this armoire (I am pretty sure its an armoire) is older than I am. Probably a lot older than I am. And it had a really beautiful wood grain and nice (though peeling) finish. And cool vintage brass casters. And matching pull-out drawers. A really nice piece, to be sure. But it’s for the kids’ room, and none of that stuff matters to them. Not yet, anyway. So we painted this thing a quirky shade of green they like, and put on bigger, more playful casters, and filled it full of baskets they can easily access. And it’s perfect for them.

And for those who might be shocked or disappointed: it’s not sacred. And the wood grain is still there. Somewhere under that great green paint.

Cottage is quirky. This is Cottage